It is example of a character DEFECT.
Trust me on this one. I speak from personal experience.
i in no way claimed that it was strength of character, nor do i concede that ann's behavior is indicative of a character defect. i am merely pointing out that we all perceive things through the prism of our own experiences. your experiences with strong women will have colored your feelings towards strong women, in general, and ann, in particular.
Rudeness and wishing ill on others is not an example of strength of character.
It is example of a character DEFECT.
Trust me on this one. I speak from personal experience.
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I think that DEPENDS on a LOT of specifics of inner heart motives. And I can speak from personal experience, too.
King David wished obliteration of his enemies, at times, if my memory serves me right.
Yes, he was generous toward King Saul.
However, he didn't just wish his enemies a coffee latte and a gentle escorted walk back to their lovers.