This is a public forum. But talking about someone who cannot speak for themselves must be more important on the "submanners" list for you.
I don't find it humourous when posters make fun of those who cannot speak to their own defense. I also think it's rather childish to do that, and that kind of "dancing" is done routinely.
Yes I am sure that poor wretch is slitting his/her wrists as we speak. You win the drama queen award for the evening.