You surely have not worn out your welcome with me--Your perspective of one who has lived this nightmare helps me to realize we're talking about real people and real families not just some characters in a bad made for TV movie. Your insights mean more than you know.
Read my comment to JLS -- tell those folks to hang tough -- no deals -- no prisoners -- stand fast and hold tight. You can't afford to dance with the devil. My son has 40-50 years to survive -- can't be done with what's happened to him so far.