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To: David Allen

What an idiotic remark.


227 posted on 05/31/2006 1:37:25 AM PDT by Jezebelle
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To: Jezebelle

It's a truthful remark. If you weren't such a feminazi, you'd know that. Don't you have a NOW meeting to go to?


299 posted on 05/31/2006 8:26:46 AM PDT by David Allen (the presumption of innocence - what a concept!)
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To: Jezebelle

I had a moment to get something from Psychology Today which will help you better understand why women have the rape fantasy more than men. Not lesbians, of course, but straight women, fantasize about forced sex.

From Psychology Today, read it and weep.
http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/pto-1268.html

"Dominance and submission fantasies.

In these, sexual power is expressed either ritualistically--in sadomasochistic activities--or through physical force, as in rape fantasies. Such fantasies are surprisingly common. Person reports that 44 percent of men have had fantasies of dominating a partner. Other studies found that 51 percent of women fantasized about being forced to have sex, while a third imagined: "I'm a slave who must obey a man's every wish."

None of this means, of course, that real-world rape victims "really want it."

"Women who find submission fantasies sexually arousing are very clear that they have no wish to be raped in reality," say Leitenberg and Henning. In their fantasies, women control every aspect of what occurs. And their scenarios are far less brutal than real-life attacks. Typically the fantasy involves an attractive man whose restraint is simply overwhelmed by the woman's attractiveness. These fantasies serve the same psychological purpose as scenes of irresistibility. "It's different means to the same end" says Leitenberg. "We want to be desired."


302 posted on 05/31/2006 9:47:53 AM PDT by David Allen (the presumption of innocence - what a concept!)
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