[NEPA]

I know what you went through making the decision to put your mother in a home. I lay awake at night agonizing over that inevitable day. I don't want to do it.

My brothers and sisters have left all the decision making to me. They will support whatever I decide.

[FlingWingFlyer]

Exactly my situation with siblings. I was told I was the "oldest" so it all came down on me. I know what you are going through and how hard it is. I hope I never have to do anything like that again.