Here is how it works:
1. Say your child is in an auto accident.
2. They are seriously injured.
It is unseemly for the aunt to come to the hospital and say that is what you get for speeding. It is ok a year or two down the road if the child recovers to discuss whether or not they were speeding that night and to caution them against speeding.
Right now these young men appear to be falsely accused. Right now the issue is what can and should be done about that. Despite what the feminazis think, most people view it as unseemly to blame the victims or crimes and in this case the victims are the lacrosse team members.
I'm confused..I'm their aunt? I thought I was on the vice squad..