Gentle Reader, she was given a general discharge from the service over two years ago, and even with the unfortunate extramarital affair she had, I give her credit for enlisting. Had I been sent into the fray of battle, I might be inclined to love the one I'm with, as well (although in my advanced age it's somewhat of a stretch to think about). I even have no difficulty with her current avocation, provided she doesn't get too creative in her pursuit of wealth and fame.
I don't fault the woman or her family or the families of those in Utah who suffered the deception, I speak of my personal approach to parenting -- not her tax payor status or her previous high calling of service to her country.
As a Post Script, JLS, I might add that I believe she has lowered her standards in recent years, and her behavior would lead me to be dubious as to her whereabouts, if she were living under my roof and I was caring for her children, it's hard to believe she's working in an all-night diner or as a nurses aid if the only uniform I see her in is a red nightie and pasties -- but that's just me.