No kidding. Pretty much a no win situation for her.
I dunno. I suggest she take advantage of the media's obsession like this:
Britney walks out of a clothing store with a shopping bag in one hand and a blanket-covered baby in the other.
Before she gets into the vehicle, she drops the baby. BAM! Right onto the sidewalk!
The photographers swoop into the scene with cameras blazing.
Britney then picks up the baby and walks over to the cameras. Then she yanks off the blanket from the unmoving form and reveals the, "Baby," as a large plastic baby doll. Her Son is safely inside the vehicle the whole time with his Father.
Britney and her Husband then give the photographers a finger to take a picture of.
Leave her the heck alone, enemedia! There's heroes in Iraq doing outstanding deeds and tasks who deserve more attention than Britney's receiving.
JMHO