That was meant to be "love her or hate her." But "lover her" if you must.
But "lover her" if you must.
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I wouldn't have sex with her with someone else's, uh, member. Not because she's a skank, or has been with too many other people, but because she's too young to be able to, uh, do it with any style or finesse. If I want to work up a mindless sweat, thanks, I'll go to the gym.