Like Hugh Grant, people exploring secret fantasies don't do them in groups, and that's a fact, although my recollection is that Grant was drunk off his ass and probably did it because he thought it was a good idea at the time, and really doesn't have any secret burning desire to get oral sex from a cheap black street hooker.
Exactly, plus the fact that Hugh Grant did it so he wouldn't have a loony love struck woman trying to say he loved her. He bought his BJ from someone who sells them, not from someone who is a potential stalker for "lost love".