You have it exactly backwards. The political war is about which side will control the government, the left or the right. The culture war is about whether or not the culture itself, including the government will be forced to accept deviant immorality in the guise of "tolerant" leftist social values.
I'm not falling for you "all or nothing, with us or against us" crap. There are two sides both determined to obtain and use extra Constitutional means to different ends. I do not accept that I must be supporting the left's agenda because I am opposed to either side getting control of those means.