My issue is that I know guys who were 'molested' who DO have problems. Mom's best friend, the next door neighbor etc. These women were in 'mother' roles and yes, it did mess up their heads.
The worst ones are those who swear they came out unscathed >:>.
Again, protect kids and have boundardies, or go down a very dark path.
I am disturbed by the idea that children have no time of innocence any longer. You need to have that golden sunlit period in order to grow up healthy, in my opinion.
Regards, Ivan