Hypothetical situation: you are a member of a glee club/choir/some group. The group goes away for a performance and at the party after the event one member of your group breaks out some drugs. You are appalled, call a cab and leave.
For some bizzarro reason the druggie claims she got the drugs from YOU. You are then arrested-even though the person who accused you has a long history of lying and breaking the law.
Do you think it's right if your family is ashamed of you?
Do you think it's right if your family is ashamed of you?
No
Of course if the players who attended the party didn't know there would be alcohol and strippers and left as soon as they discovered that, then they have nothing to be ashamed of. However, I don't think that is the case here. I could be wrong.