[ladyjane]

Was it stupid? Yes.

Not all the boys were even at this party. Some of them *may* have been stupid. Some of them may have been in the wrong place at the wrong time. Some of them weren't even there.

[Protect the Bill of Rights]

True--just speaking generalities. The point being regardless of who was at the party, who drank, who hired the stripper--it happens with boys regardless of how we raise them.

[ladyjane]

I should add: if you want to talk about stupid, let's talk about getting pregnant with someone other than your husband, using drugs, and choosing a career as a stripper. That is stupid.

Other examples of stupid - buying a house in Durham right now and betting that Duke is going to get acceptances from all their A list applicants.

The harm this DA has done to Durham, Duke and NC is unmeasurable.