That seems a bit extreme to me; I'd be sad if I didn't have any of my weekends at college my freshman year. While I didn't go to many parties, I did enjoy attending football games, getting involved in campus activities, volunteering, going to cultural events..
There's lots of bad stuff that might happen to kids when there at college, but there comes a point when you've got to provide them with the tools they need to protect themselves and just trust them enough.
And I'll repeat what I said before:
I think a lot of freepers could as easily stereotype you because you barhop on weekends as you have stereotyped some athletes at Duke. Being too much of a lady, I will not do that to you. But you do get the point, I hope.