I did not say that all "pet" dogs are missing out. I did say that to think that the typical ranch dog has a harder, less joyful life than a city pet dog is bunk and shows a poor understanding of the pure rightness of respecting an animal's dignity, and the relationships between men and dogs in a real working environment.
Now this is just my opinion, but I do believe the only "dignity" being thrown around is ours. Dogs have no shame. They aren't anywhere near human, and giving them dignity isn't helping them either. And just because someone is around dogs a long time doesn't make them anymore an expert than anyone else. I have worked with dogs many years in all sorts of situations, and that doesn't make me an expert. However, if I continue doing what I do now, with all the books I've read and research I've done, some day I may qualify for that title, but no, not right now.
Many farm people I have personally known have been downright ignorant of dogs, yet they've had them all their lives and used them for various things. I don't think they're heartless at all. I think sometimes an animal's problems are beyond what some people are capable of handling, but not all people. They're farmers, not dog behaviorists, so of course I do understand that they have their priorities and limits. I think it's just a clash of generations, personally. Yes, this new generation seems "mushy" to the elders, but we are also the same people that spay and neuter, dress our dogs up in funny clothes (how's that for dignity :D ), and don't shoot them when it gets rough. I think we aren't going to ever agree on this for these very reasons.
And let me clarify. I don't mean to say that farm dogs or city dogs have it better than the other type. I think it's all in how the dog is raised and treated. Having said that, there are good and bad owners in both situations, and that is why people make assumptions about them. One of the greatest thing about dogs is their ability to find comfort in just about any situation, as long as their human is right there with them. I don't know about your situation, but I do know that my city dogs look at me sometimes like I am the greatest thing, and I feel the same about them.