Watering down the defintion doesn't help those who are rape victims at all. This is one of the reasons I never brought my abusers to trial. I had a secret fear that no one would believe me.
This doesn't sound like rape. The slut didn't even bother to look at who she was having sex with.
that wasn't a rape, she consented, just because she thought he was a different guy than she thought doesn't mean he forced himself on her. whats next? will it be rape if she had sex with a guy who lied about being an airline pilot?