Maybe you need to have a little wider gate :~D
It's not really that narrow...don't have that many requirements, but...
I dunno. If it happens, it happens. Just wish there were groups in the area. There's always on-line Catholic sites, but...err...
Granted, that's how my brother met his fiance, but when he did actually meet her, it turned out he knew her family already and just hadn't met her in particular. So...that kinda doesn't count.