The peeing and melting into a pile is avoidance. He's not really coming apart, he's trying to keep you from enforcing anything. Are you doing anything? Let me come over in a minute and try some things with him.
Gotta get shoes on...but OK.
Tell me too!! Gypsy doesn't pee on herself, but she just melts into a pile and rolls on her back when you try to discipline her. I know she was abused, poor thing didn't know how to be a dog, and didn't even bark for six months, but now, she playing us!! LSA