i have no problems, thanks very much. but i tend to look at immorality and criminality as two different things. flogging the concept that the boys shouldn't have been drinking and having a stripper does not ameliorate the outrage of a false rape accusation. THAT i have a huge problem with, and if you have a son or a husband or a brother, you should also. women lie about sex all the time, be it sexual harrassment, rape or anything like that. once a false claim is made, the bell cannot be unrung, the damage cannot be UNDONE. and false claims can also be made against "nice" boys who have never had a drink underage or seen a stripper or done anything wrong. THAT is why this is an outrage to most people. attempting to equate the two just doesn't wash.
There are a lot of women who don't lie about sex and have never gotten themselves into situations where they felt the need to.