The difference between the party habits of the basketball team and the party habits of the lacrosse team is that the basketball team gets a pass from the press. Coach K is a little bit more on the ball as far as protecting his players also. I don't think Pressler (the LAX coach) ever has seen fit to get up at 3am and run down to the campus police station to pick up his star 3-point shooter before.
Besides, why would you're son want to ruin any chance to become an NBA star?
Tha reminds me of the old joke from the 80's:
Q: How do you keep Michael Jordan under 30 points?
A: Have him play for Dean Smith.
I know Coach K runs a very tight ship and basketball generates gazillions of $$$$ for Duke, however, the true colors of the administration, faculty and community are exposed. Male, white, athlete= guilt