I'm sorry for the school and the community. I have warm spots in my heart for both. I do hate it, though, when girls go to athletes' bedrooms and act surprised when they get "done".
You hit the nail on the head. What did she think would happen? This is not a child, she's should have known she was playing with fire.
I'm a woman, and it was something I understood from about the age of 14. You don't go to someone's bedroom, hotel room, dorm or treehouse unattended if you don't want "something" to happen. Stupid is as stupid does.