A person at work dated her now-husband for about three weeks before marriage, and about 15 years later, they are still happily married. She says they as soon as they met, it was as though they had known each other forever. I can't say I have any idea what that is like. But she does agree, she got lucky. That is not the norm, to have a long-lasting marriage from such a short courtship.
Talk to me in 20 years.