All that said ~
You gonna marry two months after your significant other dies, outside the US, and MOVE to another country and use your global network to play love songs to your child-bride?
I mean... wtf?
Sorry, I don't really know the situation.
Do you know who Dr. Fred Bell is?
Tell me about it. Art's gone nuts. You're telling me he loves this girl? He sees her as a chunk of Asian meat -- that's all.
Art's pretty smart; even if he does "love" her, didn't he anticipate the negative reaction? I mean, a Filipino woman? A 21-year-old Filipino woman? How more stereotypically white-male mail-order can you get?