Committing a rape is a heinous act. I think everyone agrees on that.
What the brainwashed young woman is talking about with the "society of rape culture" feminist propaganda is the idea that the relationship between men and women generally in American society is tantamount to rape. Leading feminist writers believe, for example, that all marriage is rape.
Frankly, this type of demagoguery trivializes actual rape, as it tries to equate real rape with the marriage relationship or other normal relationships in society, thereby misusing real rape victims for their own narrow neomarxist political agenda.