One of my favorite books, "Mr. Perfect" (a murder mystery)
starts out when a group of women at lunch jokingly write a list of what would make a man 'Mr Perfect'.
And it's a good list.
I remember it had things like
Kind
Sense of humor
Loyal
Trustworthy
Stable
Accomplished
Pleasant to look at
And then the last three went into erm, ah....
you know...
Oh .... yes, I know!
;-)