Many was the time I was awakened by my now ex-wife perpetrating the same crime upon my person. Somehow I missed the fact that I was supposed to feel violated.
In all seriousness, while I do not feel that a man has an absolute right to impose his will and exercise his husbandly perogatives upon his wife, the is understood to be lowered between husband and wife. A man should be able to grab his wife's ass as she walks by without penalty even though doing this to a strange woman is a crime. I used to try to get my ex-wife in the mood when she was asleep. She would either awake frisky or tell me to stop and go back to sleep. I respected her decision either way.
What We Are About To Do Here Is What The Good Lord Would Call A Cleansing of the Wicked. I Call It A Good Old Fashioned Texas Ass Kicking.