So what? It's HIS money! He's laid out the green for 16 years. And from what I've read here, Moms and the kid want college tuition and a car, which I have a hunch weren't included in the child support agreement. Funny that she no longer wants a relationship with him, but she still wants his money, and more of it.
While there certainly are women who need alimony and child support, my guess is everyone on this thread knows one or two who use the ex's dough to pay for life's luxuries while living with the new boyfriend.
Why would she want to continue to get snubbed - it hurts to know your father doesn't give a rats rump about your existence.
College and a car might cost him a couple weeks salary tho - poor feller