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Married man is suing for date; EHARMONY REFUSES HIM UNTIL DIVORCE
Mercury News ^ | 3/27

Posted on 03/27/2006 9:45:07 AM PST by iPod Shuffle

Posted on Mon, Mar. 27, 2006

Married man is suing for date

EHARMONY REFUSES HIM UNTIL DIVORCE

Mercury News

John Claassen wants a date so badly he's suing for one.

He's taking eHarmony.com to court, because the popular online matchmaker refused to find him the perfect mate.

Why? Because he is married.

Technically, Claassen says, he is legally separated. But that's not good enough for eHarmony, which says it is in the business of matching singles ``free of relationship commitments.'' That puts him in cyber-dating limbo.

``Most people don't file a suit to get a date,'' Claassen said Friday after filing a civil rights suit last week in Alameda County Superior Court. ``If I had my druthers, I'd be divorced by now. I'm emotionally in a different state than I am legally,'' the 36-year-old Emeryville lawyer said.

Claassen alleges eHarmony is discriminating against him on the basis of his marital status. He and his wife of eight years separated last May, and he expects the divorce to be final within two months. When he reached marital status on eHarmony's online compatibility profile, he responded truthfully: ``legally separated.''

But eHarmony says its policy is clear: No marrieds need apply.

Citing California civil code, section 51, Claassen alleges eHarmony, based in Pasadena, is breaking state law because it is denying him access to its matching service based on marital status. He seeks $12,000 in civil penalties.

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TOPICS: Chit/Chat
KEYWORDS: eharmony; lawsuit; onlinedating; singles
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To: Irish_Thatcherite; tuliptree76

BUZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

time out in corner!


61 posted on 03/27/2006 2:42:52 PM PST by DollyCali
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To: Irish_Thatcherite

Just make sure you're pinching somewhere else.


62 posted on 03/27/2006 2:43:38 PM PST by tuliptree76 (Tagline Wanted: Now Accepting Applications.)
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To: DollyCali

Uh oh, the chaperone's here! ;-p


63 posted on 03/27/2006 2:43:48 PM PST by Hoodlum91 (Tour guide goddess)
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To: Hoodlum91

No kidding.


64 posted on 03/27/2006 2:44:45 PM PST by tuliptree76 (Tagline Wanted: Now Accepting Applications.)
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To: Supernatural; tuliptree76; RockinRight; Hoodlum91

Man, I have so much to contribute here.. sigh but going to dinner date in a few..

Wouldn't this be a good thread topic for us for the weekend?


65 posted on 03/27/2006 2:44:53 PM PST by DollyCali
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To: DollyCali; tuliptree76

Aww, she can pinch pennies, but I can't pinch butts, where's the ACLU - it's discrimination!!


66 posted on 03/27/2006 2:45:08 PM PST by Irish_Thatcherite (~~~A vote for Bertie Ahern is a vote for Gerry Adams!~~~)
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To: Hoodlum91

Ha!

I am leaving for dinner.. so you all will have to protect your own butts from IT!


67 posted on 03/27/2006 2:45:33 PM PST by DollyCali
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To: tuliptree76

So.. I can pinch legs?


68 posted on 03/27/2006 2:45:42 PM PST by Irish_Thatcherite (~~~A vote for Bertie Ahern is a vote for Gerry Adams!~~~)
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To: RockinRight

There's a really high percentage of married men on these sites as well. Between the internet and individual cell phones, it's become incredibly easy to have affairs.


69 posted on 03/27/2006 2:46:13 PM PST by Hoodlum91 (Tour guide goddess)
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To: Hoodlum91
We aren't all so bad! I know how to treat a lady!


70 posted on 03/27/2006 2:46:26 PM PST by RockinRight (Yes...she's an excellent tour guide!)
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To: Irish_Thatcherite

Not mine!


71 posted on 03/27/2006 2:46:29 PM PST by tuliptree76 (Tagline Wanted: Now Accepting Applications.)
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To: DollyCali

Your butts are safe... can I join the singles ping list? No butt pinching, I promise!


72 posted on 03/27/2006 2:46:55 PM PST by Irish_Thatcherite (~~~A vote for Bertie Ahern is a vote for Gerry Adams!~~~)
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To: Hoodlum91

That is true as well, I've seen it and even known married guys who have done it.

Once it's all said and done maybe 10% of the people on these sites are worthwhile!


73 posted on 03/27/2006 2:47:30 PM PST by RockinRight (Yes...she's an excellent tour guide!)
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To: DollyCali; Irish_Thatcherite

Thanks for saving me, Dolly!


74 posted on 03/27/2006 2:48:04 PM PST by tuliptree76 (Tagline Wanted: Now Accepting Applications.)
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To: Hoodlum91
And it wasn't even for us...
75 posted on 03/27/2006 2:48:09 PM PST by RockinRight (Yes...she's an excellent tour guide!)
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To: tuliptree76

Ok... someone elses...


76 posted on 03/27/2006 2:48:22 PM PST by Irish_Thatcherite (~~~A vote for Bertie Ahern is a vote for Gerry Adams!~~~)
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To: Irish_Thatcherite
okay.. I will put you on our list.. but keep away from the female butts! ....(at least on the thread.. what you do on a date is your business).. or else..


77 posted on 03/27/2006 2:49:08 PM PST by DollyCali
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To: DollyCali

Have fun at dinner!


78 posted on 03/27/2006 2:49:45 PM PST by tuliptree76 (Tagline Wanted: Now Accepting Applications.)
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To: tuliptree76

Between martial arts & my two dogs.. I will protect anyone who wants it..

date is here.. bye


79 posted on 03/27/2006 2:50:19 PM PST by DollyCali
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To: DollyCali

Ok, thanks Dolly!!


80 posted on 03/27/2006 2:50:45 PM PST by Irish_Thatcherite (~~~A vote for Bertie Ahern is a vote for Gerry Adams!~~~)
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