It has nothing to do with nice or turning the other cheek. It has to do with you being wrong. SC was right and you were wrong, yet you called him/her names for it.
Part of being an adult is the ability to see when one is wrong. You really need to work on that.
Whatever product you are using to help you achieve peace and understanding, I hope it is something doctor prescribed.
I believe SC has Alterior Motives so it negates the wrong or right factor with me, if I am wrong so be it, but that is my perspective on her and I shopuld be entitled to feel that way, it's not to upset anyone else.