Thank you both - but right now I'm not the one that needs the condolences, we've got someone else who is facing this difficult decision who needs the support.
I know...
I didn't want to post all the sad poems to her because I don't think she's ready to hear them yet.
With my last lab, the decision was clear and easy. With my little Cocker mix, it was really hard. No one thing was the deciding factor, she was just dwindling, like her cat. I really fought and agonized over it too.