I'm sorry to hear about your divorce. I know from listening to my husband's experience that it really is very painful for a guy. I hope you feel better soon and come to your senses about liberal women. While they may be easy, things that are worth having require a bit more work ;)
My divorce is final on Friday, my ex and I are still pretty amiable and have joint custody of our dog. We never had kids so that's not an issue.
I broke it off with lib woman at Christmas and am currently not dating and not even looking. Believe it or not, in my next relationship I've decided to forgo sex for at least 10 dates. If she objects, I've learned something. It muddies everything up.
Luckily I don't have the sex drive I had 30 years ago.