Which once was considered beautiful is now considered an unforgivable sin worthy of blistering contempt, even death ;)
You shouldn't feel that way. Personally...if someone is comfortable with their self and the way they look (no matter how big or small)...more power to them!
MY point is this: don't try to BS me and tell me something isn't what it really is. A fat-a$$ is a fat-a$$; just like a beer gut is a beer gut...neither are chic or attractive to the overall majority of people.
BTW...from my perspective (a happily married man BTW)...and from your homepage, you should have no problems with men finding you attractive IMHO. ;)