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I didn't mean to suggest I try to change her! We've been married 20 years, we just talk about everything. I love her the way she is, and thank GOD she still seems to find me sexy, even tho I've gained 50 pounds since the good ole days!
That's good. My husband is a little over weight and getting gray but I really don't notice until he brings it to my attention . I still see the 19 y/o I married 35 years ago. As a good wife I do notice if his peripheral vision needs adjusting though. A little jab in the ribs occasionally gets him re-focused:')