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To: Millee

Me and a married friend of mine did an experiment one day at a club on base in Germany.

For two hours at a club, he wore his wedding ring. He isn't what anyone would call "HOT", but a decent looking guy. He had 8 women come up and "talk" to him.

For two hours after that, he took the wedding ring off. No women came up to talk to him.

Makes you wonder what single women are looking for huh?


170 posted on 01/23/2006 11:57:07 AM PST by ToddBush ("The only reason you're still conscious is that I don't want to carry you." - Jack Bauer)
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To: ToddBush

I'm just amazed anyone could spend four hours in a club. In all my thirty years on this planet, I've never even been in one, nor wanted to.

I have eaten club sandwiches though, so I know of which I speak.


173 posted on 01/23/2006 12:00:08 PM PST by exile (Exile - Helen Thomas tried to lure me into her Gingerbread House.)
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To: ToddBush
Makes you wonder what single women are looking for huh?

That's just a demonstration of the concept of "social proof". The ring demonstrates to any woman watching that the man is likely to be stable, reliable, probably at least a respectable earner, and experienced at sex and relationships. And women are always attracted to men they perceive to be experienced leaders.

There are, of course, ways for single men to demonstrate social proof without wearing a fake ring, but they are beyond the scope of this topic. The popularity of your ring-wearing friend, though, is testimony to how few single men have any idea what they are. ;)

178 posted on 01/23/2006 12:03:49 PM PST by Mr. Jeeves ("When the government is invasive, the people are wanting." -- Tao Te Ching)
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To: ToddBush
For two hours at a club, he wore his wedding ring. He isn't what anyone would call "HOT", but a decent looking guy. He had 8 women come up and "talk" to him. For two hours after that, he took the wedding ring off. No women came up to talk to him.

My theory is evolutionarily hardwired Bayesian analysis. If a man is a quality mate, he's more likely to be in a relationship. Thus in the absence of any other information, a man in a relationship is more likely to be of high quality. Women apply this reasoning unconsciously and find themselves more attracted to involved men.

186 posted on 01/23/2006 12:14:00 PM PST by ThinkDifferent (Chloe rocks)
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To: ToddBush

I remember a Seinfeld episode about that. George Costanza finally started wearing a wedding ring just to have a chance with females. :)


196 posted on 01/23/2006 12:50:09 PM PST by linda_22003
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