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If it was not about the act of performing sodomy on one another they WOULD NOT be in lust, how many guys have male friendships, go out ropin, drinking and sit around a campfire talking, all of a sudden become so smitten with one another that they end up in the tent?

I believe that this homosexualized view of male friendship is why most of us guys have far fewer and more superficial male friends than our fathers would have. It's less and less acceptable to talk about anything but sports and conquests than it was.

Men used to hang out nude in the sauna, shower, camping... it was acceptable. It had nothing to do with sex. Now it just isn't done. They still do it at the YMCA, and let me tell you, I was covered with a towel at all times and I was out of there as fast as I could go and didn't want to go back, because it just isn't done. I'm still not sure they aren't a bunch of homos because of that song and everything.

I suppose homophobia isn't about being afraid OF homosexuals, or being homosexual oneself, it's the fear of being BRANDED homosexual that has us all running in circles. And why not? It's a disgusting, devastating lifestyle that leaves nothing but death and destruction in its wake. The damn movie even demonstrates this, but nobody seems to notice that part.

I agree! which is so unfortunate and also does not transend to the female population, as women we have always been able to have friendships that are intimate but not sexual and so many more women have friends than a straight man can have without be pinged queer.

Nice post. There is very little dedicated to the destruction of the families in the movie.

Also, it used to be fine when I was younger to stay at a friends house and sleep in the same bed, after all, you are just sleeping, but now one stops to think about it before its done. Say you go on a trip with 4 friends, you get a room w/2 beds, it is still wierd but you share the 2 beds w/2 guys on each. You have that safety b/c there are the other 2 in the room on the other bed, nothings going on. But would you dare get a hotel room with 1 bed and 2 men? with no one there to verify that no funny business went on?

I go on business trips with my brother in law and we wouldnt do that.

there is a stigma to all that stuff. In response, like you say, the number of quality friends with which you have emotional/spiritual ties to, have dwindled.