OK, I'm done. No more posting to that thread.
For everyone like me, who hopes to be in a relationship with the right guy one day, those threads are hope-killers.
And being the eternal optimist that I am, I refuse to stand by and let someone stomp on my dreams and the dreams of others because they've had some bad times.
Life isn't fair, but that is no reason to make it harder to live.
Nonsense! Sure there are plenty of creeps out there. But you already knew that. Yeah it is hard to find the good ones, but you knew that too. Don't let those punks effect your mood. There are plenty of good ones out there. Just got to trust God's plan to bring them to you. Worked for me. Took longer than I expected but I had plenty of growing up to do.
These guys haven't learned the lesson: "Have you ever noticed that the common element in all your failed relationships is... you?" :-)