If we are tempted to steal and don't, does that make one a thief?
If we are tempted to lie and don't, does that make one a lier?
If we are tempted to cheat on our spouse and don't, does that make one an adulterer?
What then makes this "celibate" priest gay?????
His sexual orientation. Priests are human with lusts just like anyone else. The only caveat is that they're not supposed to act on their carnal desires. What makes this priest gay is that when he goes to confession, he confesses to carnal thoughts and fantasies involving men, instead of women. Even though he's not acting on the desire, his desire is for men, not women.