My best friend when I was a kid was the youngest of eight children. His dad came out of the closet, left his mom, and 'married' another man when my friend was nine years old. Destroyed the family. Almost all of the children ended up with drug and alcohol problems. His father died of AIDS in the mid-80s. So much destruction from an uncontrolled libido.
Ah, but was he True to Himself??? That, after all, is what really matters. (Just ask the Rt. Rev. V. Gene Robinson, for example).