We don't have any kids, just cats and horses, but my husband named him Little Bear because he just has a short little stump of a tail. He's 5 years old and came from a dear friend of mine who was suddenly taken ill and needed homes for all of his cats. I had two already and live in a small appartment, so Bear was all I had room for, but he sure is a sweetie. He sleeps on my chest most nights and doesn't seem to mind if I roll over. He just climbs back on. Nothing like Kitty Kisses in the middle of the night! ;o)
You are lucky to have Little Bear, and he is lucky to have you. I am sorry for your friend. How terrible.