Posted on 11/28/2005 2:05:35 PM PST by STD
The Middle East Media Research Institute 03/22/2005 Saudi Sheik: "A Wife Needs to Comply with Her Husband's Desires in Bed" Following is an excerpt from an interview with Sheik Muhammad Al-Munajid. Iqra TV aired this interview on March 22, 2005.
Sheik Muhammad Al-Munajid: According to Islam, a wife needs to comply with her husband's desires in bed. The Prophet Muhammad said: "If a man calls his wife to fulfill his needs, she must come, even if she is by the stove," according to the Al-Tarmizi tradition. They issued a severe warning against to any wife who rebels against her husband in bed. The Prophet said: "If a man invites his wife to bed and she refuses, and he is angry at her, the angels curse her until she wakes up in the morning." This tradition was mentioned in the collections of Al-Bukhari and Al-Muslim. God is aware of men's needs. He knows that a man may have just come home, and maybe he desires something or maybe he saw something. He knows what this need is, and this is why he ordered the wife to consent to her husband, even if she is by the stove. Even if she is baking she must consent to him. Moreover, the Prophet Muhammad said to the woman: "Compare yourself to him, he's your paradise and your hell." Imam Ahmad passed this on in his true Hadith. The wife must consent to her husband's wishes and obey him.
The wife in the West is not obligated to do so. Moreover, a wife can be raped by her husband there. They claim that if he has sex with her against her will - this is rape! They consider this rape. They claim she must be willing. They claim that she must want it. There is a disagreement in the West on this issue. Some do give the husband the right to whatever he wants, but in many other cases they don't. Therefore, the wife doesn't submit to the man whenever he wants.
Why is it always about men's needs? What about my needs?
The husband shall submit to his wife's needs even if he is mowing the lawn or watching sports on my T.V.
There. That's much better! :o)
According to the bible, men must be the provider and protector of the family.
So that means, HE must be the one who works and I should be staying at home taking care of the children. Damn feminists...messed that all up....
LOL....sounds just like my EX-husband!
My gal-pals were remarking about this very thing on email earlier today.
Submissive Males needed - must be able to cook, clean, do laundry and understand the value of 4play.
The one with the scissor through his head, or the tire tracks down his back?
I didn't let the feminists get to me and married an old-fashioned guy. He works, I stay home. It's a pretty fabulous arrangement!
The husband shall submit to his wife's needs even if he is mowing the lawn or watching sports on my T.V.
Sure darlin, just hold the remote.
I think I'd like to be on your e-mail loop!! ;o)
Those losers must be pretty lousy in bed if they have to order and/or demand it...
Yeah, I tried that and married a guy who is an old-fashioned guy. However, he's so old fashioned that he didn't get anywhere past high school for education, so now I have no choice but to work, because he doesn't make enough for me to stay home. OH yey.
"Submissive Males needed - must be able to cook, clean, do laundry and understand the value of 4play."
4-play is overrated. Mr. a considers himself lucky if he gets told, "Brace yourself!"
tee-hee ;-)
"just hold the remote"
I suppose that this would only happen if the guy had Tivo or whatever it is that let's you pause in mid play and restart!
I've done submissive,
Once...
Nevereverevereverever again.
You'd have to kill me first.
Thankyouverymuchandhaveaniceday.
It's ok, guys can do two things at once, just climb up here
on the lawn mower, don't worry, no one will notice....
"Just hold the remote"
I'm not giving it back!
Of course, I like watching sports, so I probably wouldn't change the channel.
Well, guess you can't have everything. Mine doesn't make much either! We are living with a lot less than we would like to. I'd like a second car and he'd like a big screen T.V. Oh well! I *guess* it's worth it!! :o) Welcome to FR, by the way. You are fairly new around here. Glad you found us!
Oooohhhh! You have a riding lawn mower!! :o)
Okay!
You're in!
Actually - you are already on the RWOS Ping List - I'll just add you to the short list - if you'd like.
Reason #1245 why I believe misogynists wrote a lot of the Bible. :)
OK
Most.
Brace Yourself....
LOL!!!
They should add that to the marriage vows.
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