A normal adult doesn't go into a panic when a kid acts like a kid.
If 14 year old kids are capable of committing mass murder in today's society - and we both know they are - anyone who insists on the "Leave It To Beaver" approach is a fool.
I'm sure the Columbine mutants and the two teen psychopaths who chopped up that couple in VT were considered to be just kids being kids until the bodies piled up.
I just don't believe this guy is a full grown adult. But then again, I had neighbors like this who called the police if a kid walked across their front lawn.
btw, first law with teenagers: always be nice and make friends with them. Or else!