'Dating Losers' and 'Cheater' are two different categories. If I most men had to be in one, they would vote for 'Cheater' - after all, dating loser means there probably aren't many satisfied women in his life; cheater means several women do and he is just a lowlife for indulging.
The former isn't sexually exciting, the latter may be.
Of course, a man doesn't have to be in either, so it doesn't matter much.
Whatever ya say hun. :)