Well you can always console yerself that I'm the loser who posted the thread. ;o)
Like I said to squantos, imagine your hangin' out have a 'quite a few' and the one on the left comes up and discretely grabs your crotch...is your first thought going to be it's a guy?? friggin scary man! Your going to have to pull a Crocodile Dundee on 'er!!