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In any case, anyone who suggests that she is somehow ruined for life because of a period where they gave into their lusts is off base. Take the person as you find them - they are the sum total of their life experience, and deal with the person they ARE, not with the person they WERE.

Cool. Yeah, I do agree there although in my case, I'd like to know the past and I would fess up on my side in return so if anything comes up, we can deal with it together. I wouldn't want my spouse to suffer silently if there is a skeleton or a threat of one coming out of the closet, I would want to help her deal with it as I would like her to help me if the same thing would occur to me. I think that is one of the true marks of love and commitment, if something from the past comes up, yuns deal with it together and stay together.

BTW, hear anything from the Savage people? Michael Savage is "da man!" Glenn Beck is my second favorite.

For me, I was much more impressed by the fact that she took it upon herself to open up. That took a lot of trust and risked scaring me away. I don't scare easily, though.

I can not describe to you how much she was elevated in my eyes by her realizing it would be better to tackle a serious issue by her own initiative. It wasn't a psychological bloodletting: she was sincerely sensitive to my feelings about it and decided to broach the subject.

I don't pry about the past. I am open to hearing about it. It's the lady's call in my book.

Thanks for asking about Savage Nation! He has been in great form all week but I gotta tell you, its been a month since he announced the contest and its barely come up again! I don't know if it is abandoned or what, but I haven't heard from them, and I haven't heard them play any demos on the air, except one which was so bad (and introduced as being horribly bad). While the link is still on his website, he hasn't mentioned it on the air. who knows? Thanks for asking and send me continued good vibes!