No argument here....just about everything women read about fictional 'heros' are men who are macho, decisive and masculine.
HOWEVER,
They all have a soft gooshy underbelly, want a house full of babies and will kill anyone who even looks at the love of his life cross eyed.
Yes, I agree with you. And my belly is gooshy. Haha!
All I am saying is that those qualities are not necessarily mutually exclusive, that's all.