[PaulaB]

Ok I sort of get it...

I am trying to wrap my brain around

you guys thinking if a girl cries fowl

over something said and gets upset..then

that same thing happened to her? and thats why she

is bitter?

For future posts.....I don't hate men

and actually think they are amazing and I love mine...

so if you see me responding ..

I am just needing to get a sample to study it in a little dish

under the microscope.....deal?

[HitmanLV]

I think if you try to not impute things to posters that they didn't say, your ability to communicate clearly and meaningfully will improve.

[Mr. Jeeves]

I am trying to wrap my brain around you guys thinking if a girl cries fowl over something said and gets upset..then that same thing happened to her? and thats why she is bitter?

Well, not if it was something that was actually said. Visit the divorce threads for an example - many of those guys really do hate women and are quite explicit about it. Critiques of their sweeping generalizations about women are absolutely justified.

These dating threads, however, seem to bring out certain indviduals who like to get angry over things that were not only not said, but not even implied. So their minds are filling in the blanks from somewhere, and it's logical to assume that negative personal dating experiences play a role. Or perhaps they watch too many soaps. ;)