(AND Before anyone goes flaming me for that comment, if you work for corporate America you are expected to behave in a civil manner at work or anytime you represent that company in public, and yes these guys were representing the team in public.)
I totally agree. And when I hear Mike Tice and his mumbling and excuses and see the players with their grins and no comments I want to hurt someone. It's that kind of behavior that's going to make these young people and their families so angry they go from being quiet with the media and only talking to the lawyers to help out the owners who are in no way to blame, to going ahead and going totally public with what they know and saw.
I admit I'm too close to this particular situation to be very objective but I don't know too many jobs where you are blocked into an area behind the bar by five 200-300 pound football players while they put a "stripper" up ON the bar and proceed to perform oral sex on her in front of you and you can't get past them to remove yourself from the situation.
As a 20 year old young woman who only expected to serve drinks and food I'd say that would be just a bit intimidating and frightening.
Used condoms laying all over the floor after they left was the easy part of the night...