The twaining of these two "pegs" are what I hold responsible for encouraging some women to be acting out in ways which are not in their own best interests.
Therefore, I do not ascribe to feminist theology, as I find it cognizantly discordant.
And I totally agree with you. Any theory that fails to properly value the unique contributions of both sexes to each other demeans both. IMO, the left has stolen the term "feminist" and perverted it for dependency and political ends.