I've been to a lot of meetings starting 3 months after I quit. Since I was able to quit on my own, by my understanding of the Big Book, I don't really "fit in" with their philosophy and I am not a "real alcoholic" as they take care to describe it. (I talk more about this in the original thread, where I discuss my problems with the AA concept of surrender)
So, while at AA, I keep my mouth shut where I disagree and gain what benefits I can from the fellowship of others who had a problem like mine. I have adapted the AA steps to my thinking and continue to work them.
I realize that for many AA might be their only chance. I am a lucky one that was able to quit on my own will, my financial condition and physical environment are not trapping me in a bad situation, and I was able to stay away from trigger situations in the beginning.
I would not disparage AA, as I have nothing to offer in its place. I have gone to less and less meetings as I have become farther from my last drink, down to once a month now just to stay in touch and remind me. I do not want to trade an addiction to alcohol for an addiction to AA meetings.
Do you see AA as a cult?